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Kids and divorce

The end of the marriage is always an unhappy time. This is particularly true for couples in Illinois and throughout the country who have children. Not only do the adults have to struggle with their own emotions, but there is also the challenge of helping children through what is often a very traumatic time.

There are several things that experts recommend to parents who are trying to help their children through a divorce. Parents should take a long hard look at themselves and their own emotional state. Children may pick up on the emotions of a parent who is having difficulty adjusting to the situation. Parents should seek counseling for themselves so that they are better able to support their kids.

It is also not unusual for children to have feelings of sadness and to act out in the first months and years after a divorce. Over time, behavioral issues usually subside, but children may continue to have bouts of sadness around birthdays and holidays. Parents can notify school officials of what is happening and seek out therapy for their kids if necessary. It is also important to note that children may benefit from counseling initially after a divorce but may also need additional support as they grow older.

A parent who is considering divorce may want to seek the counsel of a lawyer. An attorney could help make recommendations regarding property division, alimony and child support. In addition, the attorney may also be able to help a parent identify what is in the best interests of the children with regards to child custody and visitation. If a divorce is contentious, the lawyer could also represent his or client in legal proceedings.

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