Generated by All in One SEO Pro v5.0.1.1, this is an llms.txt file, used by LLMs to index the site. # Law Office of Bradley R. Tengler, P.C. ## Sitemaps - [XML Sitemap](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/sitemap.xml): Contains all public & indexable URLs for this website. ## Posts - [What Happens If Your Spouse Refuses to Sign Divorce Papers?](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/what-happens-if-your-spouse-refuses-to-sign-divorce-papers/) - We hear some version of this every week at our Rockford office: "My spouse is refusing to sign anything. Does that mean I'm stuck?" It's one of the most common fears people bring through our door, and honestly, it's understandable. The idea that one person can hold another in a marriage indefinitely sounds terrifying. The - [How Are Retirement Accounts Divided in an Illinois Divorce?](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/how-are-retirement-accounts-divided-in-an-illinois-divorce/) - Retirement accounts are often the single largest financial asset a couple shares, and yet they tend to get less attention during a divorce than the house, the cars, or the bank accounts. That's a problem. We've seen clients walk away from the table having negotiated hard over furniture while leaving significant retirement money on the - [What Happens After You File for Divorce in Illinois?](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/what-happens-after-you-file-for-divorce-in-illinois/) - Filing for divorce in Illinois is only the first step in the divorce process. You still need to serve your spouse with the divorce papers, you may want to petition the court for temporary orders, and you'll have to determine whether your divorce is contested or uncontested. An experienced divorce lawyer can assist you throughout - [ARE YOU HEADED FOR A DIVORCE?](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/are-you-headed-for-a-divorce/) - On behalf of Law Office of Bradley R. Tengler, P.C. posted in Divorce on Wednesday, April 29, 2020. Everybody told you that the "honeymoon phase" of your marriage would eventually give way to daily routines and ordinary life -- and you were fine with that. You weren't expecting, however, for your relationship with your spouse to fizzle away - [Does Your Ex Suffer From Malicious Parent Syndrome?](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/does-your-ex-suffer-from-malicious-parent-syndrome/) - Is your ex actively attempting to turn your children against you? Your ex may be suffering from malicious parent syndrome. Learn more here. You should not deal with this alone. Contact our team at 815-240-9953 to help you receive the justice you deserve. - [Can I Change My Parenting Time Agreement in Illinois?](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/can-i-change-my-parenting-time-agreement-in-illinois/) - The parenting time agreement that you and your ex landed on when you first divorced or first addressed the matter through the court may have served your family. - [Child Custody Factors - What Are They and Why Do They Matter?](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/child-custody-factors-what-are-they-and-why-do-they-matter/) - Divorce or separation is never easy, especially when children are involved. Often, one of the most contentious matters that needs to be resolved is the question - [Can You Refuse a DCFS Interview in Illinois? Your Rights and Options](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/can-you-refuse-a-dcfs-interview-in-illinois-your-rights-and-options/) - Learn your rights when dealing with Illinois DCFS. Understand if you can refuse an interview, its consequences, and how legal help can protect your family. - [How Does Substance Abuse Affect DCFS Cases in Illinois?](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/how-does-substance-abuse-affect-dcfs-cases-in-illinois/) - Learn how substance abuse affects DCFS cases in Illinois, custody, and parental rights. Get legal help to protect your family and fight for reunification. - [Who Are Mandated Reporters, and What Triggers a DCFS Investigation in Illinois?](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/who-are-mandated-reporters-and-what-triggers-a-dcfs-investigation-in-illinois/) - Learn who mandated reporters are and what triggers a DCFS investigation in Illinois. Know your rights and options. Contact our family law firm for help. - [Can you get emergency custody of a grandchild?](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/can-you-get-emergency-custody-of-a-grandchild-2/) - On behalf of Law Office of Bradley R. Tengler, P.C. posted in Family Law on Thursday, August 6, 2020. American grandparents have long been pressed into service for informal childcare. Sometimes, however, what starts out as a temporary situation rapidly becomes more permanent. If you have been keeping your grandchild because their parents were sick - [How to Handle a DCFS Investigation in Illinois](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/how-to-handle-a-dcfs-investigation/) - A Department of Children and Family Services (DCFS) investigation can be terrifying for both you and your children. Even if you haven't done anything wrong, the intrusion on your life can feel overwhelming. Plus, there's always the worry that your children are going to be torn away from their homes and thrown into foster care - [SIBLING VISITATION RIGHTS IN ILLINOIS](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/sibling-visitation-rights-in-illinois/) - On behalf of Law Office of Bradley R. Tengler, P.C. posted in Family Law on Thursday, September 24, 2015. Every family in Illinois is unique. Each make up is different as well as the dynamics within the home and between each other. Some families all live in one home with both parents, but this is not always the case. - [Can DCFS Come Into Your Home in Illinois?](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/can-dcfs-come-into-your-home-in-illinois/) - DCFS Home Visits in Illinois: Know Your Rights with Law Office of Bradley R. Tengler, P.C. Contact us today for legal representation. - [Are You Required to Take a Drug Test for DCFS in Illinois?](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/are-you-required-to-take-a-drug-test-for-dcfs-in-illinois/) - Are you facing a DCFS investigation in Illinois and worried about drug testing? Call today and find out how Attorney Bradley R. Tengler can help. - [Reasons Why Divorce Rates Are Rising During Covid 19 - You Are Not Alone](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/reasons-why-divorce-rates-are-rising-during-covid-19-you-are-not-alone/) - The onset of the COVID-19 pandemic has caused United States divorce rates to substantially rise. The trend could continue during the second half of this year, with predictions of a 10-15 percent increase in divorce rates. In a world free of COVID-19, relationship counselors typically report that the most common tensions between couples arise from - [First Comes Love, Then Comes Marriage, Then Comes Bankruptcy?](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/first-comes-love-then-comes-marriage-then-comes-bankruptcy/) - Money arguments are often cited as a leading cause of divorce, right up there with infidelity, so it is not a surprise that the issues of divorce and bankruptcy are often intertwined. This begs the question; does it make more sense to file for bankruptcy before filing for divorce or vice versa? It depends. Advantages - [What Should I do When Appealing Indicated Reports for DCFS in Illinois? 3 Rcommendations](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/appealing-indicated-reports-for-dcfs-3-recommendations/) - Being indicated by DCFS can be one of the most challenging times and it would be beneficial to hire an experienced DCFS Attorney today. Contact Bradley Tengler. - [Domestic Violence and DCFS in Illinois](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/domestic-violence-and-dcfs/) - On behalf of the Law Office of Bradley R. Tengler, P.C. Though it may not always be possible, we cannot avoid the fact that research supports the idea that children benefit largely from growing up in a household with both parents. The stability offered in this ideal family structure can have lasting positive effects on - [3 Steps for Protecting Yourself From a Stalker: get a no contact order](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/3-steps-for-protecting-yourself-from-a-stalker-get-a-no-contact-order/) - On behalf of Law Office of Bradley R. Tengler, P.C. posted in Orders of Protection on Monday, February 4, 2013. According to a U.S. Department of Justice study in 2009, 3.3 million people ages 18 or older were stalked in United States during a 1-year time span. Even more shocking, 76% of abused women who - [Dealing with DCFS in Illinois and What to Expect at a Shelter Care Hearing](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/dealing-with-dcfs-what-to-expect-at-a-shelter-care-hearing/) - If you have been reported to DCFS for the abuse or neglect of your child, you will most likely be facing a lengthy series of court hearings. The very first hearing you will be required to attend after a DCFS investigator has determined who will be granted temporary protective custody is called a shelter care - [DO I NEED A LAWYER TO LEGALLY CHANGE MY OR MY KID'S NAME IN ILLINOIS?](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/do-i-need-a-lawyer-to-legally-change-my-or-my-kids-name-in-illinois/) - On behalf of Law Office of Bradley R. Tengler, P.C. posted in Divorce on Thursday, June 5, 2014. Illinois law allows for a person to legally change his or her name either with or without the legal assistance of an attorney. For the woman who has successfully obtained a divorce, hanging on to the last name of an - [FILING AN ADOPTION PETITION IN ILLINOIS FOR AN UNRELATED CHILD](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/filing-an-adoption-petition-in-illinois-for-an-unrelated-child/) - On behalf of Law Office of Bradley R. Tengler, P.C. posted in Family Law on Saturday, January 24, 2015. There are many adoptions in Illinois every year. It can be a very joyous time for both the family adopting the child and the child who is being adopted. It allows people who may not be able to have a - [THE DANGERS OF TEXTING YOUR EX DURING DIVORCE OR CUSTODY DISPUTE](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/the-dangers-of-texting-your-ex-during-divorce-or-custody-dispute/) - On behalf of Law Office of Bradley R. Tengler, P.C. posted in Family Law on Friday, March 4, 2016. By now, most people realize that the things you say and do online can have a big impact on your divorce or child custody dispute. Taking evidence from social media sites like Facebook is now a standard practice for most - [CLOSING A JOINT BANK ACCOUNT IN A DIVORCE](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/closing-a-joint-bank-account-in-a-divorce/) - On behalf of Law Office of Bradley R. Tengler, P.C. posted in Divorce on Tuesday, August 8, 2017. Closing a joint bank account is one of the many tasks an Illinois couple may have to undertake if they decide to get a divorce. It is best to close the account together if possible to avoid any misunderstandings although - [What happens to property after unmarried or cohabitation couples break up?](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/what-happens-to-property-after-unmarried-couples-split/) - On behalf of Law Office of Bradley R. Tengler, P.C. posted in Family Law. A previous post on this blog talked about how unmarried couples in Rockford do not have recourse to divorce or divorce-like procedures should they split up and need to divide their property. This is because Illinois law does not recognize such a procedure. Instead, these couples - [HOW WILL MY SECOND JOB FIGURE IN TO CHILD SUPPORT?](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/how-will-my-second-job-figure-in-to-child-support/) - Even couples who live together and raise their children under the same roof may find themselves in a situation similar to this. Consult with our law office now. - [RENTAL PROPERTIES ALSO RAISE CHILD SUPPORT ISSUES](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/rental-properties-also-raise-child-support-issues/) - On behalf of Law Office of Bradley R. Tengler, P.C. posted in Child Support on Wednesday, April 17, 2019. A previous post here discussed how those who own rental properties can face complicated property division issues in the event of a divorce or separation. Rockford residents who own rental properties, whether they are going through a divorce or - [HOW DOES CHILD SUPPORT WORK IF I AM SEASONALLY EMPLOYED?](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/how-does-child-support-work-if-i-am-seasonally-employed/) - On behalf of Law Office of Bradley R. Tengler, P.C. posted in Child Support on Thursday, June 13, 2019. Many people in the Rockford area have what is often called seasonal employment. For instance, during these months of summer, construction workers, landscapers, and people who work on air conditioners may put in 60 to 80 hour weeks and - [HOW A REQUEST FOR SPOUSAL SUPPORT IS HANDLED DURING DIVORCE](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/how-a-request-for-spousal-support-is-handled-during-divorce/) - On behalf of Law Office of Bradley R. Tengler, P.C. posted in Divorce on Thursday, January 2, 2020. Alimony can be one of the most important topics a divorcing couple must address during their divorce. As a result, it pays to know as much as possible about what alimony is and how it is awarded during the divorce - [DIVORCE TENDS TO RISE AT THE START OF A NEW YEAR](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/divorce-tends-to-rise-at-the-start-of-a-new-year/) - On behalf of Law Office of Bradley R. Tengler, P.C. posted in Divorce on Thursday, January 9, 2020. For Illinois residents who are confronted by the emotional upheaval of a potential divorce, it might seem counterintuitive for there to be certain times of the year when more people decide to move forward with the end of a marriage. However, - [HOW CAN YOU STAY SAFE DURING A CUSTODY EXCHANGE?](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/how-can-you-stay-safe-during-a-custody-exchange/) - On behalf of Law Office of Bradley R. Tengler, P.C. posted in Child Custody on Friday, January 31, 2020. Custody of the children is one of the most hard-fought areas in family law. Quite understandably, emotions can run very strong whenever there's a dispute over custody and visitation rights. That can make for a volatile encounter between the - [HOW TO NEGOTIATE YOUR DIVORCE WHEN YOUR SPOUSE IS A BULLY](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/how-to-negotiate-your-divorce-when-your-spouse-is-a-bully/) - On behalf of Law Office of Bradley R. Tengler, P.C. posted in Divorce on Monday, February 3, 2020. Bullies don't just populate schoolyards and high school hallways. They're everywhere. You may even be married to one. If so, that makes negotiating your divorce particularly tricky. According to psychologists, however, there are some specific things you need to keep in mind - [DOES MY SPOUSE HAVE A RIGHT TO MY PENSION WHEN WE DIVORCE](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/does-my-spouse-have-a-right-to-my-pension-when-we-divorce-2/) - By Law Office of Bradley R. Tengler, P.C. posted in Divorce on Friday, February 7, 2020. Even though the overall rate of divorce decreased over the years, divorce among people over 50 increased significantly. Bloomberg, the U.S. News & World Report and many other sources report that elder divorce can significantly impact your finances - especially your retirement savings. However, no - [DOES MY SPOUSE HAVE A RIGHT TO MY PENSION WHEN WE DIVORCE?](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/does-my-spouse-have-a-right-to-my-pension-when-we-divorce/) - By Law Office of Bradley R. Tengler, P.C. posted in Divorce on Friday, February 7, 2020. Even though the overall rate of divorce decreased over the years, divorce among people over 50 increased significantly. Bloomberg, the U.S. News & World Report and many other sources report that elder divorce can significantly impact your finances - especially your retirement savings. However, no matter - [HOW TO APPROACH YOUR LIFE AFTER A DIVORCE](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/how-to-approach-your-life-after-a-divorce/) - On behalf of Law Office of Bradley R. Tengler, P.C. posted in Divorce on Tuesday, February 11, 2020. Making the decision to seek a divorce was hard -- but figuring out how to reinvent yourself as a newly single person may be harder. The fear of having to "start over" can be one of the major reasons people - [WHAT DO YOU TELL THE KIDS WHEN YOU'RE GETTING DIVORCED?](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/what-do-you-tell-the-kids-when-youre-getting-divorced/) - On behalf of Law Office of Bradley R. Tengler, P.C. posted in Divorce on Friday, February 28, 2020. You made the decision to divorce. You told your spouse. Now comes the next big hurdle: telling the kids. Kids naturally have a lot of questions about what's going to happen when their parents are splitting up. They may be - [Why would you sign a postnuptial agreement?](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/why-would-you-sign-a-postnuptial-agreement/) - On behalf of Law Office of Bradley R. Tengler, P.C. posted in Family Law on Friday, March 6, 2020. You got married to your spouse without a prenuptial agreement in place. Why in the world would you want to sign a postnuptial agreement now? As it turns out, there could be many good reasons for - [WHY IS THE DIVORCE RATE IN ILLINOIS SO LOW?](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/why-is-the-divorce-rate-in-illinois-so-low/) - On behalf of Law Office of Bradley R. Tengler, P.C. posted in Divorce on Thursday, March 12, 2020. The newest statistics indicate that Illinois has some of the lowest divorce rates in the nation. Data from the United States Census Bureau indicates that only 6.6% of marriages in Illinois end in divorce. Divorce rates in the nation are - [ARE DIVORCES IN A FAR-FLUNG CITY A SIGN OF THINGS TO COME?](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/are-divorces-in-a-far-flung-city-a-sign-of-things-to-come/) - On behalf of Law Office of Bradley R. Tengler, P.C. posted in Divorce on Friday, March 20, 2020. There's no denying that the COVID-19 virus has drastically transformed the way that people live their lives in many areas of the world. In particularly hard-hit places, residents have been obliged to ride out the rising tide of infections inside - [What if you need to negotiate a temporary change in custody?](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/what-if-you-need-to-negotiate-a-temporary-change-in-custody/) - On behalf of Law Office of Bradley R. Tengler, P.C. posted in Child Custody on Friday, March 27, 2020. When you crafted your custody and visitation agreement with your ex-spouse, you knew exactly what would work for each of you. For the most part, things have gone along just fine. Until they didn't. A personal - [What if you need a modification of child support in Illinois?](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/what-if-you-need-a-modification-of-child-support-in-illinois/) - On behalf of Law Office of Bradley R. Tengler, P.C. posted in Family Law on Friday, April 17, 2020. Lots of people cherish the time they spent with their grandparents -- and rightly so. Grandparents can be a source of wisdom, love, and support for their grandchildren throughout their lives. Grandparents in Illinois can sometimes - [When can grandparents seek visitation rights in Illinois?](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/when-can-grandparents-seek-visitation-rights-in-illinois/) - On behalf of Law Office of Bradley R. Tengler, P.C. posted in Family Law on Friday, April 17, 2020. Lots of people cherish the time they spent with their grandparents -- and rightly so. Grandparents can be a source of wisdom, love, and support for their grandchildren throughout their lives. Grandparents in Illinois can sometimes - [WHAT'S THE SECRET TO A GOOD DIVORCE?](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/whats-the-secret-to-a-good-divorce/) - On behalf of Law Office of Bradley R. Tengler, P.C. posted in Divorce on Wednesday, April 22, 2020. You've probably seen news articles about couples who manage to sail through their divorce and remain friends -- even celebrating their "conscious uncoupling" together with a party. How is that even possible? Most people define a "good" divorce as any - [HERE'S WHAT HAPPENS TO YOUR PENSION WHEN YOU DIVORCE](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/heres-what-happens-to-your-pension-when-you-divorce/) - On behalf of Law Office of Bradley R. Tengler, P.C. posted in Divorce on Friday, May 8, 2020. Divorce can be a difficult process for any couple. It can be even more complicated if it happens later in life, there are unequal financial circumstances and a spouse's pension comes into play. Pensions have become increasingly less popular than - [WHAT HAPPENS IF YOU DON'T PAY CHILD SUPPORT IN ILLINOIS](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/what-happens-if-you-dont-pay-child-support-in-illinois/) - On behalf of Law Office of Bradley R. Tengler, P.C. posted in Child Support on Friday, May 15, 2020. Money's tight and you're worried about paying the rent or mortgage, keeping your car and putting food on the table. Is skipping a child support payment or two an option? Not really. Skipping a child support payment is a risky - [What's a 'right of first refusal' in child custody?](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/whats-a-right-of-first-refusal-in-child-custody/) - On behalf of Law Office of Bradley R. Tengler, P.C. posted in Child Custody on Friday, May 22, 2020. Your ex-spouse has been placed on mandatory overtime at work -- so they're working much longer hours than normal. As a consequence, they're simply not available during their normally scheduled visitation. So what happens to the - [Could summer schedules throw custody plans for a loop?](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/could-summer-schedules-throw-custody-plans-for-a-loop/) - On behalf of Law Office of Bradley R. Tengler, P.C. posted in Child Custody on Tuesday, June 2, 2020. Summer is finally here in all it's glory -- which means a lot of different things to people. For divorced parents, summer often means trying to navigate difficult waters surrounding the issue of custody and parenting - [Can you change a child's name after a divorce?](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/can-you-change-a-childs-name-after-a-divorce/) - On behalf of Law Office of Bradley R. Tengler, P.C. posted in Family Law on Thursday, June 11, 2020. After you and your ex split, it became increasingly clear that your ex wasn't planning to be around for any part of raising your child. Now, your child has come to resent even sharing the same - [What should I when hiring a Real Estate Agent during a Divorce in Illinois?](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/hiring-a-real-estate-agent-during-your-divorce/) - On behalf of Law Office of Bradley R. Tengler, P.C. posted in Divorce. You're getting a divorce -- and that means selling the house because there's no way that either you or your spouse can afford it alone. The good news is that it's pretty much a seller's market out there right now. The bad news is that - [WHAT'S POST-SECONDARY CHILD SUPPORT?](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/whats-post-secondary-child-support/) - On behalf of Law Office of Bradley R. Tengler, P.C. posted in Child Support on Friday, June 26, 2020. Illinois is somewhat unique in that family court judges have the option of ordering a divorced parent to pay what's known as "post-secondary child support." Under the law, either or both parents (depending on their means) can be required - [WHAT HAPPENS IF YOU GET PREGNANT DURING YOUR DIVORCE?](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/what-happens-if-you-get-pregnant-during-your-divorce/) - On behalf of Law Office of Bradley R. Tengler, P.C. posted in Divorce on Tuesday, July 7, 2020. If you're getting divorced, you already know that life doesn't always go according to your plans. An unexpected pregnancy can really through a wrench in the works. However, it won't necessarily stop your divorce. Here's what you need to know: 1 - [WHY THE END OF SUMMER SPELLS THE END OF SO MANY MARRIAGES](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/why-the-end-of-summer-spells-the-end-of-so-many-marriages/) - On behalf of Law Office of Bradley R. Tengler, P.C. posted in Divorce on Saturday, July 11, 2020. Have you and your spouse been drifting further and further apart over time? Do you suspect that your spouse is thinking about divorce? Have you been thinking about divorce? If so, don't be surprised if August is the tipping point - [Adopting your stepchild: Where to start](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/adopting-your-stepchild-where-to-start/) - On behalf of Law Office of Bradley R. Tengler, P.C. posted in Family Law on Thursday, July 23, 2020. You love your family -- and you don't draw any distinction between your biological children and your stepchild. Unfortunately, that's not how the world sees your relationship. You find yourself frustrated whenever someone refers to you - [CHILD SUPPORT ENFORCEMENT CAN BE ENFORCED](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/child-support-enforcement-can-be-enforced/) - On behalf of Law Office of Bradley R. Tengler, P.C. posted in Child Support on Thursday, August 8, 2019. When it comes to co-parenting from separate households, any parent will tell you that it isn't always easy. However, it can be possible for you and your child's parent to get into a rhythm in which is makes it easier - [What exactly does it mean to be living separate from your spouse?](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/what-exactly-does-it-mean-to-be-living-separate-from-your-spouse/) - On behalf of Law Office of Bradley R. Tengler, P.C. posted in Divorce on Friday, August 14, 2020. Your marriage is over, and you want a divorce. You have no particular desire to drag the process out -- and neither does your spouse. Under Illinois law, you only have to live "separate and apart" from - [When you share custody and you want to change a child's school](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/3-things-you-shouldnt-post-on-social-media-during-custody-fights/) - On behalf of Law Office of Bradley R. Tengler, P.C. posted in Child Custody on Friday, August 21, 2020. Everybody, it seems, is on social media these days. Whether you're on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, TikTok or some other platform, you probably don't think much about sharing your opinion or moments from your day with others. - [3 things you shouldn't post on social media during custody fights](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/3-things-you-shouldnt-post-on-social-media-during-custody-fights-2/) - On behalf of Law Office of Bradley R. Tengler, P.C. posted in Child Custody on Friday, August 21, 2020. Everybody, it seems, is on social media these days. Whether you're on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, TikTok or some other platform, you probably don't think much about sharing your opinion or moments from your day with - [ILLINOIS PARENTS FACE MANY CHILD SUPPORT CHALLENGES](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/illinois-parents-face-many-child-support-challenges/) - On behalf of Law Office of Bradley R. Tengler, P.C. posted in Child Support on Friday, September 12, 2014. There are many parents in Illinois who have children with a person from whom they are divorced or were never married to in the first place. In these situations child support becomes an issue. It is in the best interest - [THE BASICS OF A COLLABORATIVE DIVORCE AND MEDIATION](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/the-basics-of-a-collaborative-divorce-and-mediation-2/) - On behalf of Law Office of Bradley R. Tengler, P.C. posted in Collaborative Divorce on Saturday, March 15, 2014. Getting a divorce is never an easy decision. There are options when it comes to filing for a divorce, and working out the process of splitting property, child support and visitation and maintenance. Collaborative divorce and mediation are two ways a couple can decide - [What impact has Covid-19 had on United States divorce rates?](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/what-impact-has-covid-19-had-on-united-states-divorce-rates/) - The coronavirus pandemic has proved a stressor on many facets of life, with marriages nationwide being no exception. According to a report by Legal Templates, March to June saw a 34 percent uptick in the number of individuals seeking divorce. The report states, “Thirty-one percent of the couples say the lockdown irreparably damaged their relationship.” - [Does Living Separate and Apart But Under One Roof Constitute a Legal Separation in Illinois?](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/does-living-separate-and-apart-under-one-roof-constitute-a-legal-separation-in-illinois/) - According to Illinois law, before a divorce (dissolution of marriage) can be entered by the court, a couple must live separate and apart for a minimum of six months. Illinois Marriage and Dissolution of Marriage Act “The court shall enter a judgement of dissolution of marriage…If the parties live separate and apart for a continuous - [Co-Parenting During a Pandemic 101](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/co-parenting-during-a-pandemic-101/) - Co-parenting is tough enough. When you tack on the existence of the COVID-19 pandemic, communication and decision-making become even more challenging feats. It is paramount you inform yourself on how to maneuver these tough times alongside your co-parent, in a way that protects the health of you and your entire family. Here are some tips on - [Preparing for a Divorce in the New Year](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/preparing-for-a-divorce-in-the-new-year/) - January Typically Sees an Uptick in Divorce Filings and Inquiries The month of January typically comes with a 30 percent increase in divorce filings. Why is this the case? The combination of aiming to avoid the divorce process during the holiday season and intent to start fresh during the new year results in January appearing - [What Should Guardians Know About the COVID-19 Vaccine?](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/what-should-guardians-know-about-the-covid-19-vaccine/) - As a guardian, what should you know about the COVID-19 vaccine? It is important to become educated on certain facts before your loved one receives the vaccine. Inform yourself on vaccine results, such as if immunity proves immediate. It is also crucial to become aware of the existence of COVID-19 vaccine scams and how - [When Co-Parenting Disagreements Pertaining to Children’s Summer Plans Arise](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/when-co-parenting-disagreements-pertaining-to-childrens-summer-plans-arise/) - Despite the persistent existence of COVID-19, summer camps seem to be filling up quickly. If you and your co-parent are in disagreement about whether or not to send your child to a summer camp this year, the federal Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) website serves as a helpful source. The CDC lists in - [Mediation in Family Law Matters](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/mediation-in-family-law-matters/) - What is mediation? Mediation entails the involvement of a neutral third-party. This third-party individual ensures your issues are efficiently combatted, in a manner that mitigates excess conflict. Law Office of Bradley R. Tengler, P.C. becomes acquainted with the details of each client’s unique family law case. This allows for an accurate determination of whether or - [Learning How To Co-Parent After Divorce](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/learning-how-to-co-parent-after-divorce/) - Dealing with a failing marriage may lead you to seek a divorce. While some divorce proceedings proceed forward with little conflict, others can become contentious. Some of the most polarizing issues Rockford couples face as they divorce have to do with children. Some of the most well-intentioned proceedings may become bitter quickly in the face - [How to Guard Your Safety Amid a Domestic Dispute](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/how-to-guard-your-safety-amid-a-domestic-dispute/) - If you are divorcing an abusive spouse, it is important to be aware of how to stay safe throughout the process. Even if your spouse has never exhibited abusive behavior, the ample stress the divorce process promises may cause them to scarily lash out. Here are five tips on how to stay safe during a - [The Terms “Child Custody” and “Visitation” Are Non-Existent Under Illinois Law](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/the-terms-child-custody-and-visitation-are-non-existent-under-illinois-law/) - Did you know that the Illinois Marriage and Dissolution of Marriage Act no longer includes the terms “child custody” or “visitation”? When detailing these areas, Illinois law refers to “child custody” as “parental responsibility” and refers to “visitation” as “parenting time”. These changes were initiated back in 2016. If you need an explanation of how - [Spending or Hiding Assets Before a Divorce](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/spending-or-hiding-assets-before-a-divorce/) - Divorce is not easy and comes with significant financial implications both for you and your partner. Have you thought of spending some money or hiding certain assets before you divorce your spouse? Bad idea! Out of anger and strife with your partner, you might contemplate hiding some financial details or assets, primarily if you have worked - [Orders of Protection in Illinois](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/orders-of-protection-in-illinois/) - In some family matters, issues may become particularly heated. In turn, a party’s wish for an order of protection may arise. In Illinois, three types of orders of protection exist: An Emergency Order of Protection is temporary, only lasting from 14-21 days A Temporary Order of Protection is short term as well, and may last - [Tips on Getting Into a Healthy Mental State Post-Divorce](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/tips-on-getting-into-a-healthy-mental-state-post-divorce/) - At Law Office of Bradley R. Tengler, P.C. we are aware that divorce poses as one of life’s most stressful events. The divorce process can be very physically and emotionally taxing. That is why it is crucial to curate your mental, emotional and physical health after the process ends. Here are some tips on how - [Business Valuation Amid the Divorce Process](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/business-valuation-amid-the-divorce-process/) - In an Illinois divorce, marital property vs. non-marital property must be distinguished from each other. Only marital property is subject to division. It is divided according to an “equitable division” model. When a business is involved, matters can become complicated. The question of what to do with the business in terms of equitable division of - [Dividing Stock Options in an Illinois Divorce](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/dividing-stock-options-in-an-illinois-divorce/) - If you are caring for a child that is not your own because their biological parents are unable to do so, you need a Rockford guardian attorney. Legal protection is key in these difficult situations. The aid of an experienced attorney will allow you to make decisions on behalf of the child that are usually - [Guardianship in Illinois](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/guardianship-in-illinois/) - If you are caring for a child that is not your own because their biological parents are unable to do so, you need a Rockford guardian attorney. Legal protection is key in these difficult situations. The aid of an experienced attorney will allow you to make decisions on behalf of the child that are usually - [Dividing Retirement Assets Amid Divorce Process](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/dividing-retirement-assets-amid-divorce-process/) - When it comes to a divorce case, division of retirement assets is a complicated part of the property division process. Your retirement assets may include a 401(k), 401(b), IRA/Roth IRA, among others. In an Illinois divorce, property is divided according to the “equitable distribution” model. This means that only marital property is divided. The way - [What Will Happen to My Inheritance during an Illinois Divorce?](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/what-will-happen-to-my-inheritance-during-an-illinois-divorce/) - In Illinois, marital property must be divided equitably during a divorce. Is an inheritance considered marital property in Illinois? The good news is that an inheritance isn't regarded as marital property, but there are exceptions. Those exceptions are why you need the Law Office of Bradley R. Tengler. What Is Marital Property? Marital property is - [Division of Vacation Properties Amid Divorce Process](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/division-of-vacation-properties-amid-divorce-process/) - Division of vacation properties may be included in equitable division of assets for many couples maneuvering the divorce process. In these cases, multiple financial aspects must be evaluated. Such aspects include: the value of the property, and whether it is located in the United States. Additionally, both parties involved in the divorce will be faced - [Is Adultery Illegal In the State of Illinois?](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/is-adultery-illegal-in-the-state-of-illinois/) - According to Illinois law, adultery is in fact illegal. However, since the year 2016, Illinois has been a “no-fault divorce” state. This means that in filing for a divorce, solely irreconcilable differences need to be proved. Adultery may be the reason irreconcilable differences arise, but it is no longer accepted as grounds for divorce. If you - [Illinois Department of Children & Family Services Investigations](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/illinois-department-of-children-family-services-investigations/) - If the Illinois Department of Children & Family Services conducts an investigation on you, it can be terrifying. The outcome of your investigation may be pending for months, all while you are waiting to hear if your child will be placed in foster care. If your child has already been placed in foster care, you - [Hiding or Spending Assets and Why You Shouldn't](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/hiding-or-spending-assets-and-why-you-shouldnt/) - We invest a lot of emotion and resources into our property. However, spending all of your assets or attempting to hide them is a bad idea due to several reasons. Illinois- An Equitable Property State There are two approaches to dividing property when people get a divorce, community property and equitable property. Communal property means - [Self-Care Techniques Amid the Divorce Process](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/self-care-techniques-amid-the-divorce-process/) - At Law Office of Bradley R. Tengler, P.C. we understand the stressors that the divorce process poses. Throughout this process, practicing self-care techniques is paramount. Self-care will result in some of your stress being alleviated. Here is some advice on how to make your divorce as smooth-sailing as possible. Some pointers include voicing your feelings - [Business Valuation in Your Illinois Divorce](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/business-valuation-in-your-illinois-divorce/) - The FDA has recently approved vaccine administration for children in the age range of 12-15. In turn, divorce attorneys across the United States are anticipating battles between co-parents on the horizon, pertaining to the decision to vaccinate their child. There were many disagreements between co-parents about virtual vs. in-person schooling. The vaccination issue is sure - [Vaccine Administration Availability for Children May Lead to Co-Parent Disputes](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/vaccine-administration-availability-for-children-may-lead-to-co-parent-disputes/) - The FDA has recently approved vaccine administration for children in the age range of 12-15. In turn, divorce attorneys across the United States are anticipating battles between co-parents on the horizon, pertaining to the decision to vaccinate their child. There were many disagreements between co-parents about virtual vs. in-person schooling. The vaccination issue is sure - [Gathering Superior Resources for Your Case](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/gathering-superior-resources-for-your-case/) - When granting parenting time and decision-making responsibilities, the court takes into account what situation would serve the child’s best interests. Throughout parental responsibility cases, we take a detailed approach to gathering information. We strive to reach a successful outcome through mediation, classes and negotiation versus litigation. If we are unable to resolve matters this way, - [Same Sex Marriage in Illinois](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/same-sex-marriage-in-illinois/) - Same sex marriage was legalized in Illinois with the passage of the Religious Freedom and Marriage Fairness Act. This law states that all laws applicable to marriage apply equally to same-sex and different-sex couples. Before its passage, Illinois allowed for same-sex couples to enter into civil unions or domestic partnerships. However, challenges surfaced if couples traveled to states - [Coping With Grief After Your Divorce](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/coping-with-grief-after-your-divorce/) - When divorce arises, in many cases, grief does as well. Thankfully, due to grief being a universal experience, there have been many strategies devised to get through it. Here are some tips on how to grieve in a healthy manner, and create the best post-divorce version of yourself possible. Divorce poses as one of life’s - [The Difference Between Legal Separation and Divorce in Illinois](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/the-difference-between-legal-separation-and-divorce-in-illinois/) - What is the difference between legal separation and divorce in Illinois? The key difference is that divorce results in a dissolved marriage, while legal separation does not. One reason individuals may choose to separate is to ensure they are confident in a decision to divorce. In order to legally separate, at least one spouse must - [Hidden Assets in Divorce](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/hidden-assets-in-divorce/) - Both spouses are required to disclose all assets in an Illinois divorce. However, one spouse attempting to hide assets is surely not an unheard of scenario. Hidden assets can come in many forms which include phony debt, antiques and hidden cash. If one spouse fails to accurately disclose information about the marital property, legal consequences - [Postnuptial Agreements](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/postnuptial-agreements/) - A postnuptial agreement is more easily overturned than a prenuptial agreement. This is because a postnuptial agreement occurs after marriage, so assets may have already been co-mingled. If you wish for an enforceable postnuptial agreement that aligns with your wishes, it is paramount you seek the guidance of an experienced lawyer. Attorney Bradley R. Tengler - [How May My Business Be Divided During a Divorce?](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/how-may-my-business-be-divided-during-a-divorce/) - For spouses who own a business, divorce proceedings generally require the enterprise to be divided fairly under the Illinois equitable distribution laws. This applies to commercial ventures of any size. Small businesses contribute more than 40% to the nation's GDP; the court views smaller family ventures as valuable property subject to fair division during a - [Contested Divorce](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/contested-divorce/) - If you have lived in Illinois for at least 90 days, then you can file for divorce. The first step you must take is filing a petition for divorce in your county. The petition states that you want a divorce, and how you think matters such as division of property and parental responsibilities should be - [High Asset Divorce in Illinois](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/high-asset-divorce-in-illinois/) - What is considered a high asset divorce in Illinois? Illinois law defines a high asset divorce as a divorce where the net income of the spouses is $500,000 or more. In the case of a high asset divorce, the court will take into consideration certain circumstances in order to determine alimony. These circumstances are listed - [Child Custody in Illinois](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/child-custody-in-illinois/) - Typically, remarriage will have no impact on custody. The only time custody would be impacted in such a case, is if the court believes the remarriage is not in the child’s best interest. An example of this is if a parent married an individual who has a criminal history that may be harmful to the - [What Questions Should You Ask During Initial Consultation With an Illinois Divorce Attorney?](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/what-questions-should-you-ask-during-initial-consultation-with-an-illinois-divorce-attorney/) - The divorce process can prove taxing. However, a qualified divorce attorney can help you navigate the legal process. Finding an attorney that will maximize your chances of securing a bright post-divorce future isn't as straightforward as it may seem. You must consult with a proven attorney to ensure you will receive the legal services that - [Divorce Lawyer](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/divorce-lawyer/) - A lawyer who specializes in divorce will be able to effectively: -Make sure your interests are protected when it comes to issues such as maintenance and child support -Review and discover hidden assets -Maximize your chances of a beneficial outcome if a family business is involved -Advocate for your best interests when it comes to - [Divorce Following COVID-19](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/divorce-following-covid-19/) - The coronavirus pandemic led to many struggles, and relationships were not an exception. From financial issues to spending every moment together, many marriages were put to the test. If you are going through the divorce process following COVID-19, you are not alone. Read about the common impacts the coronavirus pandemic had on relationships here. - [Contested Divorce or Uncontested Divorce](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/contested-divorce-or-uncontested-divorce/) - If you and your spouse agree to all of the divorce terms, then an uncontested divorce will occur. However, if you are unable to come to an agreement on certain terms, such as division of assets and spousal support, a contested divorce will occur. In a contested divorce, your case is presented to a judge. - [Will Filing For Bankruptcy in Illinois Relieve Child Support Debt?](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/will-filing-for-bankruptcy-in-illinois-relieve-child-support-debt/) - Parents struggling to pay bills, including child support, may look to declare bankruptcy to relieve their child support debt. Indeed, some parents assume that by going bankrupt, they will be able to fully escape regular child support payments. However, child support debt cannot be dissolved by an individual declaring bankruptcy under Illinois family law. What - [You Have The Right To Remain Silent](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/you-have-the-right-to-remain-silent/) - Familiar in the context of criminal law, this is worth applying to your divorce as well. The things you say about your soon-to-be ex, the venting you do on social media, and the things you say in front of your children can all be turned against you during your divorce case. Your best bet is - [Vaccination Status in Illinois Custody Case](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/vaccination-status-in-illinois-custody-case/) - COVID-19 vaccination status is becoming an issue in Illinois custody cases. One unvaccinated mother was recently barred from seeing her son. Source: https://abcnews.go.com/US/wireStory/judge-strips-unvaccinated-illinois-mom-rights-son-79731230 - [Til 18 Do Us Part](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/til-18-do-us-par/) - We recently shared some advice about how important it is to stay out of the spotlight during your divorce and let your lawyer do the talking. Taking to social media to vent about your soon-to-be ex can damage your case and lead to long-term problems. If you have children, chances are you will be in a co-parenting - [Kill Two Birds With One Stone Through Bankruptcy?](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/kill-two-birds-with-one-stone-through-bankruptcy/) - Hoping to kill two birds with one stone by eliminating your child support debts via bankruptcy? Think again. Source: https://www.aarp.org/money/credit-loans-debt/info-2021/bankruptcy-pros-and-cons.html - [How is Parental Alienation Classified in Illinois?](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/how-is-parental-alienation-classified-in-illinois/) - Illinois does not specifically recognize the term "parental alienation". However, poisoning the well against your ex is harmful to your children and can come back to bite you in family law proceedings. Source: https://www.moms.com/parental-alienation-should-be-classified-child-maltreatment-by-law/ - [Bankruptcy and Divorce At Once? Here's How.](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/bankruptcy-and-divorce-at-once-heres-how/) - Financial issues are one of the primary drivers of marital strife and divorce. If you are faced with bankruptcy and divorce at the same time, it is crucial to have the guidance of an attorney with experience in both areas. Source: https://www.experian.com/blogs/ask-experian/how-to-handle-bankruptcy-and-divorce-at-the-same-time/ - [Divorce: Who Gets The Pets?](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/divorce-who-gets-the-pets/) - Many people refer to themselves as “pet parents” and refer to their dogs, cats and other critters as their “fur babies”. Illinois is one of three states where this is more than a turn of a phrase- it’s the law when it comes to divorce and pets. The vast majority of states treat pets in - [Is Cryptocurrency Divisible In Divorce?](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/is-cryptocurrency-divisible-in-divorce/) - Yes, but the key is being able to find it. If you have reason to believe your spouse may be hiding assets from you in the event of a divorce, legal assistance is highly recommended. Source: https://www.tenglerlaw.com/divorce-attorney-for-hidden-assets-and-offshore-accounts/ - [Keeping The Holidays Peaceful After A Divorce](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/keeping-the-holidays-peaceful-after-a-divorce/) - During her televised NBC special, When Christmas Comes Around, the mother of two opened up about writing a new song for people who might be struggling during the holidays. Source: https://www.etonline.com/kelly-clarkson-talks-writing-emotional-christmas-song-amid-divorce-i-was-crying-my-face-off-176041 - [Post-Divorce Holidays Can Be Very Emotional](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/post-divorce-holidays-can-be-very-emotional/) - During her televised NBC special, When Christmas Comes Around, the mother of two opened up about writing a new song for people who might be struggling during the holidays. Source: https://www.etonline.com/kelly-clarkson-talks-writing-emotional-christmas-song-amid-divorce-i-was-crying-my-face-off-176041 - [Coparenting & COVID-19 Vaccines](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/coparenting-covid-19-vaccines/) - Most coparents share responsibility and authority for making medical decisions for their children. This creates an issue when coparents disagree on whether to vaccinate their children. https://www.today.com/parents/covid-19-vaccine-kids-issue-co-parents-t237998 - [How a Divorce Attorney Got Through Her First Post-Divorce Holidays](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/how-a-divorce-attorney-got-through-her-first-post-divorce-holidays/) - The first holiday season after divorce can be difficult for anyone, even a divorce attorney. https://www.msnbc.com/know-your-value/how-i-got-through-my-first-post-divorce-holiday-n1286397 - [When Divorce and Bankruptcy Collide](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/when-divorce-and-bankruptcy-collide/) - If you are looking at filing for divorce and bankruptcy, which do you do first? https://www.tenglerlaw.com/divorce-custody-family-law/ - [Vacation Properties & Divorce](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/vacation-properties-divorce/) - The issue of vacation property in a divorce is anything but relaxing. Vacation properties are marital property and subject to division in most divorce cases. It is crucial to make accurately determine the value of the property to ensure you receive your fair share of the property or equivalent assets in your divorce settlement. https://www.tenglerlaw.com/vacation-property-and-divorce/ - [Who Gets the Child?](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/who-gets-the-child/) - This story out of Kentucky covers many of the issues at stake in custody cases nationwide. Parenting time is not always 50/50 in Illinois. Courts will base parenting time decisions on what is in the child's best interest based on factors such as the age of the child, ties to the community and who has - [Don't Let Hidden Assets Sink Your Post-Divorce Finances](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/dont-let-hidden-assets-sink-your-post-divorce-finances/) - A property settlement in divorce is only fair when it is based on accurate numbers. If you think your spouse may be hiding assets offshore to avoid detection, it is crucial to have an experienced attorney who can work to uncover all marital assets and ensure you get your fair share of the marital estate. - [Cheer If You Can, Zip It If You Must](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/cheer-if-you-can-zip-it-if-you-must/) - Sometimes great family law advice comes from unexpected sources. In the most recent edition of Vogue, Kim Kardashian dropped an important truth bomb about the best way to deal with an ex for the sake of your children: “You could be so hurt or angry at your ex, but I think in front of the kids, it - [This Valentine's Day, Let's Hear It For Divorce](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/this-valentines-day-lets-hear-it-for-divorce/) - Emma Specter, a writer for Vogue, shares why divorce was the right move for her family and a game-changer in how she approaches her own romantic relationships. https://www.vogue.com/article/this-valentines-day-lets-hear-it-for-divorce - [First Comes Paternity Then Comes Child Support](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/first-comes-paternity-then-comes-child-support/) - This story goes to show how important it is to establish legal paternity as soon as possible. It is the basis for being able to obtain child support and assert parental rights. https://www.newsweek.com/man-backed-refusing-pay-child-support-until-rights-are-established-1677862 - [Retirement Assets and Divorce](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/retirement-assets-and-divorce/) - The proper valuation and division of retirement assets is a crucial component in divorce. Retirement assets may include employer-sponsored and self-sponsored plans including 401(k), 401(b), IRA, and Roth IRA accounts among others. https://www.tenglerlaw.com/division-of-retirement-assets/ - ["The Handoffs Were the Hardest Part for Me"](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/the-handoffs-were-the-hardest-part-for-me/) - No one walks down the aisle expecting their marriage to end in a messy divorce. Unfortunately, divorce is a part of life for close to 50% of married people. The good news is that divorce does not have to be unnecessarily messy or hurtful. By avoiding common pitfalls you can set yourself up for as - [5 Pitfalls to Avoid in Your Divorce](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/5-pitfalls-to-avoid-in-your-divorce/) - No one walks down the aisle expecting their marriage to end in a messy divorce. Unfortunately, divorce is a part of life for close to 50% of married people. The good news is that divorce does not have to be unnecessarily messy or hurtful. By avoiding common pitfalls you can set yourself up for as - [What Happens at an Illinois Child Support Hearing?](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/what-happens-at-an-illinois-child-support-hearing/) - A hearing may be conducted by a judge in court or by the Department of Healthcare and Family Services. If paternity has not been established, you may be asked personal questions about the circumstances surrounding conception. You will be asked questions about your finances in an effort to determine the amount of child support to - [Where Will You Live During Your Divorce?](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/where-will-you-live-during-your-divorce/) - Figuring out each party's living situation during the divorce is a crucial part of the process. If you have children, your primary focus should be on maintaining a home life that is as stable as possible. https://people.com/home/josh-flagg-was-living-at-the-beverly-hills-hotel-before-announcing-divorce-from-husband-bobby-boyd-source/ - [The 3 Worst Mistakes Men Make in Divorce](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/the-3-worst-mistakes-men-make-in-divorce/) - Learn about the three mistakes men make in divorce and how you can avoid making them. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/contemplating-divorce/202203/the-3-worst-mistakes-men-make-in-divorce - [Tackling Money Issues in Divorce](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/tackling-money-issues-in-divorce/) - Here's some tips for how to tackle money issues in a divorce. Having an experienced divorce attorney is a good place to start. https://www.cnbc.com/2022/04/04/getting-a-divorce-heres-how-to-tackle-those-money-issues.html - [Who Gets the Dog in an Illinois Divorce?](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/who-gets-the-dog-in-an-illinois-divorce/) - Perhaps you are familiar with the phrase "fur babies" or even have some fur babies of your own. The thought of being without your beloved pet due to a divorce is distressing. The state of Illinois is one of the few states that have laws specifically dealing with the issue of pet custody in divorce. - [Can Bankruptcy Resolve Child Support Issues?](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/can-bankruptcy-resolve-child-support-issues/) - It is important to understand your options if financial difficulties are getting in the way of making your child support payments. https://www.tenglerlaw.com/will-filing-for-bankruptcy-in-illinois-relieve-child-support-debt/ - [PODCAST Developing a Summer Parenting Plan](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/podcast-developing-a-summer-parenting-plan/) - With summer approaching quickly, it is important that divorced parents have a plan for their children before summer begins. Listen to the linked podcast to learn more about why, and how to develop a sound parenting plan ahead of time. http://divorcetalkradio.net/divorce-say/podcast/parenting-plan-heading-into-the-summer/ - [How the Pandemic Affected Divorce Rates](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/how-the-pandemic-affected-divorce-rates/) - COVID-19 and its accompanying challenges pushed many relationships to their breaking point. Some relationships have suffered because people were spending much more time together, while other couples clashed over COVID-19 protocols and how to parent children throughout the pandemic. After the pandemic began, attorneys were getting around two times the amount of divorce inquiries per day compared to - [8 Things to do After Your Divorce is Finalized](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/8-things-to-do-after-your-divorce-is-finalized/) - Divorce is never easy. You may think that you are beyond prepared for the divorce to be finalized, but you are not as prepared as you think you are. Follow these eight steps to make sure your post-divorce life starts off smoothly. 1. Acknowledge the End of an Era Marriage is a huge part of a - [Handling Co-Parent Issues](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/handling-co-parent-issues/) - There is no doubt that co-parenting can result in a variety of different issues. Some can be small, and some can be very hard and seem like they will never resolve. Follow the link to learn a few tips and tricks to resolving co-parenting issues. https://www.ourfamilywizard.com/blog/coparenting-guide-healthy-communication-after-divorce#handling-issues - [Common Question: What Should I Wear to Divorce Court?](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/common-question-what-should-i-wear-to-divorce-court/) - Don't let the thought of what to wear to court stress you out. Click the link below so you know what is appropriate, and what is not ahead of time. https://www.worthy.com/blog/divorce/legal/how-to-dress-for-divorce-court/ - [How Divorce Affects Real Estate in Illinois](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/how-divorce-affects-real-estate/) - Are you considering a divorce in Illinois? Real estate, especially your marital home, is often a significant asset requiring careful consideration. In Illinois, property division follows equitable distribution laws, which does not necessarily mean a 50/50 split, but rather a fair distribution based on various factors. Our team of real estate lawyers handles issues relating - [Grief After Divorce](https://www.tenglerlaw.com/grief-after-divorce/) - It is completely normal to go through the grievance process after a divorce. It is often necessary in order to successfully heal and come out stronger than before. 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