May 30, 2017 | Child Custody


Illinois parents of minor children may have heard of a concept called nesting. In this type of an arrangement, divorced parents take turns living in the marital home. This allows the child to stay in a familiar environment while being able to spend time with both parents after they have divorced. In most cases, parents will rent a home or apartment to occupy when they are not living with the child.

Nesting may be ideal for parents who may not be able to afford a second home. Having the ability to rent a small apartment instead may work out financially while also helping the child adjust to his or her new reality. A permanent living arrangement is ideal for the child because he or she can get into and stay in a routine, which may make it easier in the months and years following a divorce.

It is important to note that nesting does take the full cooperation of both parents. They generally have more contact with each other than they would in a traditional shared custody arrangement. Parents should also keep in mind that their children may have a hard time accepting that a marriage is truly over if they see their parents working well together. It may also be awkward if one parent finds a new partner as nesting doesn’t necessarily lend itself to privacy.

After a divorce, it is best for parents to consider the needs of their children when determining new living and custody arrangements. In many cases, it is best if a child is able to spend time with both parents assuming that it is safe to do so. Those who wish to pursue custody or other parental rights may wish to consult with an attorney who could assist in negotiating an agreement.